tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post6661999647313715869..comments2018-07-23T14:59:30.666-07:00Comments on Half The Deen: Polygamy & Religiousness?single4nowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-15612814640323623382010-01-20T14:05:35.475-08:002010-01-20T14:05:35.475-08:00Daytime and roster for night time. NB One wealthy ...Daytime and roster for night time. NB One wealthy enough to pay for all maids, cooks, drivers, gardeners, shoppers, etc. LOL :) :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-28770194296016732062010-01-20T11:57:31.141-08:002010-01-20T11:57:31.141-08:00lol Chiara, when would you find time to be indepen...lol Chiara, when would you find time to be independent? You'll be too busy giving each husband equal attention.<br /><br />y - walaikum as salaam. InshaAllah. I think his site would be really good however, he had said last Jan that his site would be up and running and then it shut down in, I believe, 1 day. I think he's busy with other projects so I don't see his site coming up anytime soon.single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-54235749229434373092010-01-20T08:48:08.705-08:002010-01-20T08:48:08.705-08:00salam guys,
There's also another site called ...salam guys,<br /><br />There's also another site called halfourdeen.com, by Baba Ali. According to his website, it will be up and running sometime this year.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-59307706635000539102010-01-20T08:12:48.677-08:002010-01-20T08:12:48.677-08:00Yes, 5 is my current response to this topic. They ...Yes, 5 is my current response to this topic. They would all allow me my independence, and be each one special of course.<br /><br />Yes Yemen has higher rates of polygyny than Saudi, but still not the numbers that get people agitated.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-11835924872152029652010-01-20T06:48:41.838-08:002010-01-20T06:48:41.838-08:00As salaam walaikum,
Yes, I've heard about it b...As salaam walaikum,<br />Yes, I've heard about it but isn't it currently on a hiatus?single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-51791360696623716792010-01-13T20:42:03.573-08:002010-01-13T20:42:03.573-08:00Bismillah
Thanks for the comic. THAT made me crac...Bismillah<br /><br />Thanks for the comic. THAT made me crack up!!!! <br /><br />You may be really interested in what we're doing at Practimate - it's all relevant to your posts! :DMegan Wyatthttp://www.practimate.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-10717026505055658432009-12-07T01:37:21.640-08:002009-12-07T01:37:21.640-08:00lol! 5 husbands! It's hard enough to find 1 gu...lol! 5 husbands! It's hard enough to find 1 guy to marry. It's an interesting thought though. :P<br /><br />I never knew Yemenis were polygamous. I actually thought it was more popular in Saudi. Very interesting.single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-29384821243142435912009-12-04T11:11:14.140-08:002009-12-04T11:11:14.140-08:00Interesting post, and great article in the link.
...Interesting post, and great article in the link.<br /><br />I think the point is permissibility not encouraged or discouraged. However there is great discouragement in the difficulty of needing to be scrupulously fair to more than one spouse, and making it clear that this is a near impossibility. <br /><br />Very few Muslims are polygamous. In Saudi, depending on the region 2-12% with the higher numbers near Yemen and among the same tribes as in Yemen where it is on the higher end of that number.<br /><br />I of course, would immediately take 5 husbands if any no. 2 wife were to come along! LOL :) :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-87667399975928199342009-12-01T02:49:28.833-08:002009-12-01T02:49:28.833-08:00Just a note: I just found out that the girl I ment...Just a note: I just found out that the girl I mentioned in my post left Islam. :( Although, she mentioned in her video that she didn't leave because of all the rude comments.single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-81980278163180963662009-11-29T15:04:29.115-08:002009-11-29T15:04:29.115-08:00yeah, i agree. It wouldn't be fair to the spo...yeah, i agree. It wouldn't be fair to the spouse for someone to be thinking about another person. I guess most people just naturally forget about people in the past over time. Anyway, thanks for the response.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-45583272026611361362009-11-29T14:10:12.029-08:002009-11-29T14:10:12.029-08:00one girl*one girl*single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-75325242677852305102009-11-29T14:09:03.700-08:002009-11-29T14:09:03.700-08:00Hmm, not really sure about other girls but I don&#...Hmm, not really sure about other girls but I don't really see any point in holding on to old crushes and what not. It's past, it's gone. If someone is not over it, they should wait till they are to consider marriage because it's not fair to your spouse if you keep comparing them to your ex, even if it is in your mind. I've actually felt like guys tend to hold on to their past more than girls. Maybe it just depends on the person. Personally, I have known only one girls who was really hung up over someone she liked. Other than that, most girls don't seem to be that way. I don't think a girl would normally marry someone they can't love. I couldn't. InshaAllah, that answers your question. :)single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-23180941222777607502009-11-29T12:37:30.388-08:002009-11-29T12:37:30.388-08:00single4now, i have a question which is kind of rel...single4now, i have a question which is kind of related to the topic. I don't mean this to be a personal question about you, but just a general question. We've all had 'crushes' in the past, like over the years or whatever, but do women kind of hold on to those memories and stuff? Like, i think i would be really jealous of that. what do you think? Or maybe i'm just paranoid? Again, this isn't a personal question about you, just in general.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-2391183245539251302009-11-29T11:00:29.019-08:002009-11-29T11:00:29.019-08:00Nidal - very true. :)
Ma Vie - the brothers who a...Nidal - very true. :)<br /><br />Ma Vie - the brothers who are interested in polygamy could make a good intention of helping the widows and divorcees, however I rarely see that happening. Many tend to be looking for younger girls who were never married. Whereas our Prophet (saw) married mostly widows. It's interesting to note that Prophet (saw)'s wife Umm Salama Hind (ra) initially declined marriage to the Prophet (saw) stating one of the reasons as jealousy. And we are talking about the best man, the messenger of Allah (swt)!<br /><br />y - True. :)single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-60008469270385235062009-11-29T10:21:57.146-08:002009-11-29T10:21:57.146-08:00Agree completely with the comments as well as the ...Agree completely with the comments as well as the original post. I think polygamy was only intended when there is a huge shortage of men, such as after the battle of Uhud, and if there was monogamy, some women wouldn't be able to get married. It's not just for the man to have fun or whatever.<br /><br />peace outAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-36910659244397317732009-11-29T04:09:19.180-08:002009-11-29T04:09:19.180-08:00Firstly, I love the pic! Loolz :D Secondly, I pers...Firstly, I love the pic! Loolz :D Secondly, I personally don't like polygamy because intimacy between more than two people irks me. I understand that polgamy is for a good cause and I do see it's need. But what really bothers me the most is that some men take this for granted and twist it to satisfy their needs. Not cool.Ma Vie & Etchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10213028993139303118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374292277971618660.post-63353159620933403772009-11-29T00:43:09.618-08:002009-11-29T00:43:09.618-08:00A woman can make the precondition to marriage that...A woman can make the precondition to marriage that her husband-to-be will not take any more wives. This precondition is implicit in modern culture, so we don't delve too far into it.<br /><br />While so many brothers support polygamy, very, <i>very</i> few will actually go ahead with it.<br /><br />It should be noted that the split between men/women is still roughly 50/50. If you marry more than 1 woman, some poor soul goes without ;P As I understand it, the main purpose of polygamy is for social, political and perhaps offspring reasons...NidalMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11927192905836604585noreply@blogger.com