Let me clarify. This is a different person than the one I mentioned in the my last blog post. He was fine in every other way except when we spoke about our beliefs. And BOY were they different. I just couldn't relate and I felt that it would create major problems later on. That's the last aspect where I want to have clashes with my husband. Not that I want to have any but I understand that even married couples who love each other have disagreements.
Getting back to the current suitor, he hasn't exactly expressed his need for urgency on the matter either. So maybe we both are in the same position. I know I should just be honest but I've noticed that honesty doesn't always work too well in my favour. Either they are put off and become argumentative or withdraw while making excuses. Not keen on either scenario as of now. And then that makes me wonder if I can't trust them now, how would we have made things work after marriage.
There are other things on my mind which are giving me the excuse to not think about dealing with this suitor. I suppose I should just get to it. If it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. Right?
2 comments:
Do istikhara sis, and by the sounds of it you have a bad gut feeling. Take it from a lady who has experince..... Trust your GUT! Don't allow yourself to be sweet talked into liking someone. Pray to Allah, and trust Allah and follow your gut feeling.
True. Yes, I generally trust my gut. Thank you for your advice. :)
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